How To Say No and Still Be Kind

How To Say No and Still Be Kind

A lot of people like you are afraid to say "no". Do you think that something negative could badly affect the people to see. You feel that when you say no, people might think that you're angry, arrogant, even indifferent. Then, you will inevitably harbor guilt. It frustrates you to her that you can actually "let some people down, because you have not listened to their bidding. There may be some truth. However, if you continue to say "yes", then can spread yourself so thin. Here are some ideas to persuade you to say "no" negative feeling that bad: 

• Level with those who ask you to do something. Be frank. Be honest. If you can not deliver their request, to discuss the reasons. Never try to lead them, saying something like this: "Give me some time. Maybe I can do it for you." If in fact you already know that you can not satisfy the appeal, let's face it. You were straight course, can be evaluated. People appreciate it more when you do not hesitate to level with them. 
• Do not just say "no". Assist, when you can. Sometimes people the impression that you have already achieved. Sometimes that gives them a reason to approach you and how you benefit. Now, if the request from your experience, tell them this. Explain your limitations and why you think that does not really work. Now, if there is a way to offer help, do not have second thoughts. You can pass them to someone who may be in a better position to do the job. Even if you could not help them, they can accurately assess the meaning of your sincerity and concern. They may respect you for it. 
• Do not over commit yourself. If you have already agreed to the terms and something inevitable happened and prevent you from meeting deadlines, let people hear that, as soon as possible. Do not burden yourself with trying to rush everything. The quality of your work may be affected. Telling people about the real situation can certainly reduce the load. Most often, those who know you can appreciate your being open. They may even give you their advice and compassion. They may even extend to give you freedom. This could certainly help solve the problem instantly. 
• Encourage people to do things by themselves. Instead of physically doing things at their discretion, invite them to try things themselves. Help them find their skills and ultimately create their own self-esteem. If they understand what they can do things by themselves, you can enjoy your own time doing things that are important to you.

Change your point of view. To say "no", that is what you can do. You have the right to weigh things, and if your limit is really stretched out, by all means, tell me what you can not make a request. Just make sure you say "no" kind, sincere manner.

How To Say No and Still Be Kind